Erik Withey

7/26/25

Erik Withey passed away peacefully in his home on July 26th, 2025 surrounded by his family after a long battle with cancer.

Erik was born in Auburn, NY to his parents Richard and Elaine on July 15th, 1977. He was raised in Skaneateles and graduated from Skaneateles High School. He spent most of his early days on his family farm on Skaneateles Lake where he learned the importance of hard work, perseverance, and dedication.

He then went to work for the Village of Skaneateles where he spent many years working to provide for his family and serve the community. After 20 years at the village, Erik decided to start his own business – Withey Sealing. He was very proud to try something new and he loved being his own boss. Erik was a man who lived life full throttle. His passion for things such as music, football, and beer were all part of him, but motocross was his true obsession. He spent every weekend with his mom and friends racing motocross up at Frozen Ocean while also traveling and competing throughout the country. Later in his life, he introduced his children to live music, where they attended countless concerts and rarely missed a Godsmack show. There is nothing he loved more than being able to share his love for music with his family.

Erik was predeceased by his mother and angel, Elaine Bailer-Withey, who we all know was waiting for him with open arms. He was also predeceased by his grandparents, E. Richard and Virginia Withey as well as Raymond and Norma Bailer.

He is survived by his beloved wife, Colleen and their four children, Sophia, Skyllar, Annalise, and Hayden; his brother, Marc and his daughters, Caitlyn and Camryn; his father, E. Richard Withey; Colleen’s family as well as several aunts, uncles and cousins.

Thank you to all of Erik’s doctors, caregivers and friends over the last few years. When you hear the saying “it takes a village”, the Skaneateles community is one like no other and our family will be forever grateful.

Calling hours will be held on Friday, August 1st from 3 pm to 6 pm at Robert D. Gray Funeral Home, Skaneateles with a reception at the Skaneateles Rod and Gun Club to follow.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Hospice of Central New York and of the Finger Lakes- 990 7th North Street, Liverpool, NY 13088.

To send condolences, visit: robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.