Services

In addition to funerals and calling hours, we also offer the services below.

We serve all religions and individual traditions.
Pre-Arrangements:

 

-Help your family with the decision-making at a stressful time by pre-planning your funeral.

 

Pre-Plan: Open up a funeral trust account.

Medicaid/SSI: There are advantages for eligible individuals.

Video Tributes:

 

-A collection of photos compiled into a slideshow with music on DVD. 

Memorial Services:

 

-Set up a ceremony that honors a person who has died or serves as a reminder of an celebration of an loved one.

Veteran Forms:
-Flag Application
-Grave Marker Application
-Benefit Forms
Burials:
 -Traditionally, a burial service involves a visitation, followed by a funeral service in a church, or other place of worship.  The casket is typically present at both these events, and it is your decision on whether to have the casket open or not.  You have the option of having the remains interred (earth burial), or it may be entombed in a crypt inside a mausoleum (above ground burial).  Family or religious traditions are often a factor for choosing burial.  Decisions need to be made on whether the body needs to be embalmed, what kind of casket to use, what cemetery to use and what to put on the gravestone.
Cremations:

--Cremation is an alternative to the burial process and it is chosen by many people because of religious beliefs, the desire to preserve the environment or it was requested by the person who died. 

--Cremation is also a less expensive option in comparison to a burial.  The remains are placed in a container that is combustible and placed in a special furnace called a cremation chamber or a crematory where through intense heat is reduced to bone fragments that are then crushed and pulverized to resemble course sand.  The cremated remains of an average adult body will weigh about 7-8 pounds.  Cremation is not an alternative to a funeral, but rather an alternative to burial or other forms of disposition.

--Cremated remains can be scattered or buried, or they may be kept with the family in a decorative urn.  There are many new and different ways to dispose of ashes today, cremated remains can be placed in an artificial coral reef in the ocean, they can be launched into space or sent up in helium balloons, or they can be spun into glass pieces of art or diamonds.

--Some religions welcome cremation while others forbid it.  The Catholic Church had banned cremation up until 1963, and burial remains the preferred form of disposition today.  In other Christian denominations cremation was historically discouraged but nowadays it is more widely accepted.  In eastern religions such as Hinduism, Jainism, Sikhism and Buddhism cremation is mandated, while in Islam it is strictly forbidden.  Orthodox Jews also forbid cremation; other sects of Judaism support cremation, but burial remains the preferred option. 

After Care:

-We provide a variety of literature to help both children and adults through the grieving process.

Robert D. Gray Funeral Home -- 49 Jordan Street -- Skaneateles, NY 13152 -- (315) 685 - 5224